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Moral from a little girl

This is a true story that happened at the time to a pious man who lived with his family and who wanted to go to Mecca to make his Pilgrimage.

(At the time, it took a long time to get there for those who lived far away, due to slow transportation)

His sons, upon hearing this news, told their father not to go, because he was the only one who worked to support his family and therefore had to stay to work for them. The father then changed his mind.

He had among his children, a little daughter, pious, who came to him and said to him:

”O my father, who grants us our sustenance if not Allah  (azwadial) ?

Do not worry O my father, go to your pilgrimage, and as the Most High says,
whoever places his trust in Him, He will provide for his needs where he least expects it.”

Following the wise words of his beloved daughter, the father decided to leave for Mecca…

Time passed when one day, an emir passed through this region with his companions, and felt immense thirst. He asked one of his companions to fetch water from the inhabitants of this place in order to bring it back to him. The companion therefore went in search of water and knocked on the door of “our little family”. He asked them for water and the family offered it to him with great pleasure.

The companion brought water to the Emir who was very happy to have quenched his thirst. He then asked his companion who was this family who had offered him their water so that he could thank them.

The companion replied that it was so-and-so’s family (the father of the family was known for his piety). The emir then asked to be taken to him so that he could thank him.

Arriving on the scene, the family explained to him that he had gone to make his pilgrimage and with these words, the emir said:

“In the absence of our brother, we have the duty to take care of his family” and he took out a huge purse full of gold coins which he offered to them. Then he turned to the multitude of companions who accompanied him and said to them: “May he who loves me do as I do.”

This is how the house of this family was filled with gold and silver coins.
 

Everyone was jumping for joy… except the little girl who was sobbing…

The emir saw her crying and asked her why.

She answered him:

“A man looked at us… and we are rich… what can we say about the Look of God? »

Let’s look at subhan Allah how God the Most High takes care of the one who places his trust in Him, and let’s look at how the little girl reacted, and how she compared the generosity of a man, and the immense rewards that God the Most High promises us, here and in the afterlife, for our obedience and worship.

May we learn from this…

Islam values ​​the mother

1 – The Most High said:

{Worship Allah and do not associate with Him. Act with kindness towards (your) father and mother, … }
[Surah 4 – Verse 36]

Ibn Abbas ( Radhiallahu anhu ) said: “[…] that is to say, do them good, be gentle with them, do not scold them, do not stare at them with your eyes, do not raise your voice at them. speaking and behaving towards them like a slave before his master.”

2 – The Most High said:

{ And your Lord has decreed “Worship none but Him; and (mark) kindness to father and mother: if one or both of them should reach old age with you, then do not say to them: “Fi!” and do not rush them, but speak respectful words to them.
And out of mercy, lower the wing of humility for them, and say: “O my Lord, have mercy on them both as they raised me when I was little” } [Surah 17 – Verses 23-24 ]

You must respect your parents, father and mother and take care of them. This piety is elevated to the rank of duty which comes just after that owed to Allah  (azwadial) , which proves that Islam holds fathers and mothers in high regard.

Allah  (azwadial)  forbade us from saying bad words to them, even if it was a simple “fi!” ”. He forbade us to scold them. On the contrary, you must speak to them gently using friendly language.

A man came to the Messenger of Allah and said to him: “O Messenger of Allah! Who deserves my company the most? ”. He said: “Your mother.” He said: “And who else? ” – he says: “Your mother”. He repeated: “And who else? ”, he said: “Your mother.” He repeated again: “And who else?”, he said: “Your father”.”

[Reported by Al Bukhari and Mouslim]

The Prophet  (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam) commended the man to his mother three times in a row, which reflects the privilege of the mother and the honorable place of the Muslim woman.

Aisha (Radia Allahu anha)

Originally from the Kinana Tribe, Aisha (Aïcha bint Abu Bakr) (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was born approximately 9 years before the Hegira, while the Revelation had begun approximately 3 years ago. She was the daughter of Abû Bakr ( faithful friend and closest companion of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) who was called “As-Siddîq” (the truthful). It was in his company that the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) completed the Hegira towards Medina. Abu Bakr was a clothing merchant in Mecca.

Aisha’s mother, Um Rumman, was the daughter of Umayr ibn Amr. She was – with her husband – among the first Muslims from the first year of the Revelation and experienced all the persecutions carried out against the faithful of the new religion. She was very active alongside her husband and the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) announced to her that she would have a place in Paradise. She died before the disappearance of the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) and it was he who placed her in her grave. Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) told us: « I did not know my father and my mother other than practicing the Muslim religion. « 

Besides her brother ‘Abdallah, Aisha had a half-sister, Asmâ, daughter of Abû Bakr.

Regarding the marriage of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) with Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , we are told that the Messenger of Allah (Radia Allahu ‘anha) saw the Angel Gabriel (Alaihi sallam) in a dream. present him with a piece of cloth in which something was wrapped.

The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam) asked him: “What is it? » and the Angel Gabriel (Alaihi sallam) answered him: “Your wife! » By lifting a corner of the cloth, he discovered the young Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) . This message came to him like a divine command. He therefore went to his friend Abu Bakr ( Radhiallahu anhu ) to ask for his daughter’s hand, which the latter happily granted. This event is placed around the year 3 before the Hegira (620 AD).

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) had already been proposed to by a family of polytheists, but they began to fear that by marrying their son to Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , he would also embrace the new religion and abandon their traditions. They were therefore extremely happy when an opportunity allowed them to renounce this union. […]

The day she entered the House of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam), things took place with the greatest simplicity, including the wedding meal. That day there was only a bowl of milk in the house. The Messenger of Allah took a sip, gave the bowl to Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) who also took a sip, as did the few other people present. It was the month of Shawwâl.

Aisha was installed in her apartment, the only door of which opened onto the mosque and closed with a simple curtain. The furniture consisted of a mattress, a date fiber pillow, a carpet, two jars, one for dates, the other for flour, as well as a jug for water and a bowl. There was also an oil lamp, which, due to lack of oil, did not often work. We saw that each person’s furniture could be different because of what they brought with them or received as gifts from their families.

She is the only virgin woman that the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) married, all the other wives had already been married and had become widows. We are told that Aisha was pretty. Dinet writes that she was gracious, very spiritual and educated. Later, Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was to say that among the Brides, some were more beautiful, especially Zaynab, Juwayriya and Safiya (May Allah be pleased with them).

We know that Aisha was, after Khadîja (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , the favorite wife of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam). But she was not the “favorite” for her beauty alone, nor her youth, but rather for her intelligence and the liveliness of her spirit. Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was chosen by “destiny of Allah”; Allah (azwadial) is Most Knowledgeable! Her youth was precisely a major asset for the mission that she would have to fulfill throughout her life, as we will see later.

We are told that a Companion asked the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) the question: “Who do you love most? » – “Aisha, he replied” – “For men,” he clarified. » – “Aisha’s father! » – “And after him? » – “’Umar ibn Al-Khattab. » Then he listed other characters. [Reported by Bukhari]

He needed a young, intelligent and enthusiastic woman, capable of assimilating and interpreting the laws of Islam to women. However, from her earliest childhood, she saw the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) almost every day, when he visited his friend Abu Bakr ( Radhiallahu anhu ), in his house, transmitting to him, little by little, the verses of the Koran which were revealed to him by the Angel Gabriel (Alaihi sallam) . They also discussed together the various events concerning the Muslim Community. She was lively and intelligent, as we have said, and she therefore learned, from a young age, from the very mouth of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam), as the Revelation and events progressed, both before and After her marriage, everything she needed to know for the teaching mission that would fall to her throughout her life.

She had the required qualities and, due to her youth which made her quite permeable, she was more likely to receive and retain, and then retransmit, the teachings of Islam. She was still young at the time of the Hegira. However, everyone was unanimous in saying that no one could better tell all the details of the Emigration, even several years later. As a young girl as she was then, she participated with her sister Asmâ in the secret preparations for the journey of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) and her father Abu Bakr ( Radhiallahu anhu ). Later, when she entered the House of the Messenger of God, her education continued.

As soon as he came home, she asked him questions. When he spoke to people in the mosque, she stood by the door of his apartment, listening to what he said in order to benefit from his teaching. It is in particular through all the questions she asked the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) that many teachings and traditions have reached us.

It was reported to us that his knowledge was equal to that of all the Companions and Mothers of the Believers combined. This is easy to explain: she was almost always present during the conversations that the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) had with the Companions when he transmitted to them the meaning of the divine message. She saw him live every day and nothing he said or did escaped her.

Ibn Abu Hurayra ( Radhiallahu anhu ) tells us that:

“Aïsha, wife of the Prophet, never heard a thing that she did not understand, without returning to the charge with him, until she had understood it well. » [Reported by Bukhari]

She is recognized for having been one of the greatest jurists of her time. She also had a developed taste for letters and distinguished herself in poetry. We owe teachings on the most diverse subjects to the insatiable curiosity of Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) . Here are some examples:

– Following the question on jihad: “Couldn’t we do it?” » “No,” replied the Prophet, “the most meritorious jihad for you women is a piously accomplished pilgrimage” [Reported by Bukhari] Or according to another version: “Your jihad is the pilgrimage! »

– The obligatory consent of the future wife to her marriage. “The virgin is ashamed” remarked Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) . The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) then specified: “His consent is valid through his silence. »[Reported by Bukhari]

We will see that numerous events generated important lessons both for women and for all Muslims.

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) knew the genealogy and history of all the tribes of pre-Islamic Arabia, which was very important for the « strategy » that the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) had to put in place, so that the Community can form alliances with each other. And we will see that several of the Prophet’s marriages participated in these connections.

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) is still considered to have had good knowledge of medicine. It seems that she acquired this knowledge in particular during the illness of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam), when numerous delegations came to her bedside, coming from all regions of Arabia, to try to deliver him from his illness, by prescribing medicines that Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was responsible for preparing herself.

We are also told about her that she participated, with some of the Wives and other women among the first Muslims, in several of the military campaigns which took place, notably at Uhud, in the War of the Ditch, where the women brought their support. active participation by treating the wounded and giving water to the combatants. The hadith reported by Anas ( Radhiallahu anhu ) testifies to this:

“I saw Aisha and Um Salama, their clothes rolled up to the point that I could see the bottom of their legs, leaping with the wineskins on their backs and emptying them into the mouths of the troop. Then, they came to fill their wineskins and returned to empty them again into the mouths of the troop. » [Reported by Bukhari]

We know that there were Muslim women in all military campaigns, except the first, at Badr. […]

It is reported that during the lifetime of the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) , there were already 20 women jurists among the Companions. This shows the importance of knowledge for all Muslims, including women.

“The search for knowledge is an obligation for every Muslim. »
[Reported by Bukhârî and Ibn Mâja]

But let us return to Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) to say that we are indebted to her for a large number of ahadith (around 2,200). Regarding this, the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam) said: “Aisha is half of the religion.”

Aisha’s role within the family of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) was most important. Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was, as we have already said, after Khadîja (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , the favorite wife of the Prophet. Anas ibn Malik ( Radhiallahu anhu ) reported that the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) said: “The superiority of Aisha over other Muslims is like that of the tsarid over other dishes. » This was the Prophet’s favorite dish.

Many events marked the married life of the Prophet .

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was quite spontaneous… which sometimes caused some incidents; but these were as many teachings given to Muslims, whether the revelation of a verse, or whether a word or an act of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) reached Muslims with, as an essential objective, to educate them in their religion by showing them the solution according to the circumstances. We will relate below those of the events which seem the most significant from the point of view of the benefits brought to the Community, events linked to the presence of Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) in the house of the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) .

1 – The slander affair
The case takes place in the year 5 of the Hegira. Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) must be around 14 or 15 years old. This incident was more serious than all those that punctuated Aisha’s life. It came after the revelation concerning the wearing of the veil. When one of the Wives was traveling with the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam), her palanquin was taken down from her camel at the time of the halts. So, when she needed to isolate herself for a moment, she did so discreetly, moving away from the camp.

It therefore happened, during a halt, on the return from the victorious campaign led against the tribe of Banul Mustaliq, while Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) had left her palanquin, that the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) gave the signal departure and her palanquin was put back on the camel. Given its lightness, no one noticed that it was not inside, and the caravan returned to the road without it. When she returned to the camp, she no longer found anyone; without panicking, convinced that people would quickly notice her absence and that they would come back for her, she stayed where she was and fell asleep.

In the early morning, it was a member of the caravan, Safwân (whose mother was Abu Bakr’s maternal aunt), who found her sleeping. He had walked all night (he was responsible for providing rear guard in order to recover latecomers or lost objects). He called her, then recognizing her, put her on her camel and brought her back, holding the animal by the bridle, at a forced march, to join the caravan at the moment when it was stopping again.

This incident – ​​which took place after the revelation on the veil – would not have had other consequences if jealousy had not inhabited the hearts of a few people, some towards Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , the others with regard to Safwân. The trip ended without anything happening. Arriving in Medina, Aisha fell ill for a month. She did not imagine that she and Safwân were the subject of such an “affair”.

The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) had just married Juwayriya (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , daughter of the chief of the Banul Mustaliq tribe and did not suspect what was going on either. However, it was at this moment that the slander against Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) and Safwân began. What the Prophet ends up knowing. Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was surprised that the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) hardly lingered with her while she was ill. He checked on her and left, without staying to chat with her as usual. She only learned of the slanderous rumors of which she was the subject after her recovery, from the mouth of Um Mistah, mother of one of the authors of the rumor.

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was stunned and fell ill again. She asked the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam) for permission to go to her parents, in order to confirm with them what she had just learned. She asked her mother; Um Ruman confirmed the rumor that was circulating, but tried to comfort her by telling her not to attach too much importance to this gossip, […].

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , instead of being comforted or reassured, cried profusely. We are even told that she fainted.

But, contrary to what his mother thought, none of the Mothers of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with them) took part in these rumors. They were pious and worthy women, and whatever reason for jealousy they might have had, none contributed to spreading these rumors. On the contrary, they all spoke in favor of Aisha.

On the other hand, Hamna, the sister of Zaynab bint Jahsh, one of the Wives, participated in the slander, hoping to discredit Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) for the benefit of Zaynab (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , in the eyes of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam ) . But Zaynab didn’t know anything. We are even told that, like the other Wives, the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) questioned her about what she knew. She replied:

“O Messenger of Allah! I respect my eyes and my ears. I only know good things. » And Aisha added: “Zaynab was the only one of the Wives who was on an equal footing with me. Allah preserved her because of her reserve. His sister then began to be hostile to him as well. » [Reported by Bukhari]

In reality, the slander had originated by a certain Ibn Ubbay and some other “hypocrites”, then was taken up and propagated by Mista (to take revenge for a dispute between him and Abu Bakr) and by the poet, Hassan Ibn Thâbit ( who had a grievance against Safwân), and finally, Hamna, sister of Zaynab, of whom we have just spoken.

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was taken home by her parents. She kept crying and hoping to be vindicated.

For his part, the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) had not the slightest doubt as to the innocence of his young wife and Safwân but he could not exonerate her only because his conviction was made. He was waiting to receive proof of this innocence and as it was slow, he questioned the other Wives and those close to him. They all said the same thing:

“It’s all lies. We only know good things about Aisha. » [Reported by Bukhari]

Among the Companions, he also questioned ‘Ali ibn Abu Talib and Usama ibn Zayd. Usama, certain that she was also innocent, advised:

“Keep your wife. We only know good things about her. » As for ‘Ali, he replied: “O Messenger of Allah, Allah did not want to upset you. There are many other women besides her. Ask her servant, she will tell you the truth! » [Reported by Bukhari]

This response, a little ambiguous, hurt Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) who remembered it long afterwards. But we will see it later.

The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) also questioned the servant of Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , Barîra, who replied: “I swear by the One who sent you, I have never seen anything reprehensible, otherwise that being a very young woman, she sometimes falls asleep next to her husband’s dinner and lets the familiar sheep of the house eat her pittance! »

The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) resolved to raise this matter publicly by addressing the faithful. He said something like this to them:

“O People! What do you think of those who offend me through members of my family by spreading false rumors about them? By Allah, I know only good things about the people of my house and only good things about the man they speak of, who never entered one of my houses without me being with him. » [Reported by Bukhari]

There even followed an altercation between several people, and the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) had to restore calm between them. Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was unaware then that the Prophet Muhammad had publicly defended her; however, it comforted her greatly. She continued to cry while placing her trust in Allah. It was obviously not enough for the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) and a few other people to be convinced of the innocence of Aisha and Safwân for everything to return to normal; proof was needed and it was slow in coming!

It is through the trials to which He subjects the Believers that Allah elevates their faith. There is, for every Muslim, reason to meditate on the fact that trust in God is essential in difficult moments of life.

A month had passed since the affair began. One day, while her parents were near her, as well as a woman from the Ansar who came to comfort her, Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) saw the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) enter her home. He greeted her and sat down, something he had not done since the beginning of his illness.

Bukhârî tells us that the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) pronounced the shahâda, then addressed her in these terms:

“O ‘Aïsha, something has come to me about you; if you are innocent, Allah will justify you; If you have committed any fault, ask Allah for forgiveness and return to Him. The faithful who recognizes his faults and returns to Allah, Allah returns to him. »

Hardly had he finished speaking when she stopped crying and, turning to her father, prayed to him: “Answer the Messenger of Allah for me! » Abu Bakr ( Radhiallahu anhu ) then said to him: “I don’t know what to say to him! » She addressed the same request to her mother, who gave her the same answer. Then, herself addressing the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam), she said to him:

“I know you’ve heard what people are saying; it has entered into your souls and you believe it. If I tell you that I am innocent – ​​and Allah knows that I am innocent – ​​you will not believe me. But, if I confessed to you that I committed what Allah knows that I am innocent of, you would believe me. So I will tell you what Joseph’s father said:

{Resignation is a beautiful thing and God will help me against what you have said.}
[Surah 12 – Verse 18]

These are the words of Jacob (Alaihi sallam) to his sons who came to announce the death of Joseph (Alaihi sallam) , when they had agreed among themselves to throw him into a well.

After this response, Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) returned to lie down on her bed while the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) continued his visit, with his parents. And, while he was still there, he received the revelation which finally exonerated Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) :

“Yes, those who came with the slander are a whole bunch of you. Do not count it as an evil, on the contrary, it is a good thing for you. To each of them what he gains in sin. To him, however, who bears the greatest share among them, a tremendous punishment.

Why, when you heard it (the slander), you men and women of faith, did you not think well of yourselves and say: “This is obvious slander.”

Why don’t the others produce four witnesses? So, if they do not produce witnesses, they are the liars before God. And were it not for the Grace of God upon you, and His mercy here and in the hereafter, a huge punishment would have visited you for what you have initiated.

When you received on your tongues and said with your mouths what you had no knowledge of, and you counted it as nothing, although – with God – it was enormous.

And why did you not say, when you heard it: What have we to speak of this?
Purity to You! This is a huge slander!

God urges you never to repeat such a thing again if you are Believers. And God shows you the signs. God, however, is Learned and Wise. » [Surah 24 – Verses 11-18]

The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam) became smiling again and announced to Aisha: “O ‘Aisha! Allah declares you innocent! »

Her parents, always present, advised her: “Go to him and be grateful to him. » But she replied to them: “I will not go to him and it is Allah Alone whom I will praise. » As we see, despite her young age, Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) had character and a strong personality.

But here we must note that the revelation of these verses was a great good for the Community of Muslims; these verses, in fact, forbid any speculation about the conduct of a woman and it forbids harming anyone by accusing them of adultery, unless you can present the testimony of four people in good faith.

2 – Dry ablution (Tayamûm)
Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) and Um Salama (Radia Allahu ‘anha) had accompanied the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) on an expedition. The troop had stopped at the time of evening prayer and was preparing to leave when Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) realized that she had lost the onyx necklace she was wearing. According to one version, it was given to her by her mother on her wedding day, according to another version, it was lent to her by one of the Mothers of the Believers. We looked for him, in vain.

The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) had the camp established for the night. But there was no water there. The Companions complained to Abu Bakr ( Radhiallahu anhu ) about the futility of the reason which obliged them to spend the night in this place, depriving them of the water necessary for their ablutions.

Abu Bakr ( Radhiallahu anhu ) came to reproach his daughter and said to her: “You are constantly creating problems…” Towards the end of the night, the Prophet received a revelation which instituted dry ablution (tayamûm).

[…] If you are sick or traveling, or if one of you returns from a place where he defecated, or if you approached your wives and found no water, perform dry ablution by touching pure earth. Wipe your face and hands. God is certainly Forgiving and Merciful. [Surah 4 – Verse 43]

Suddenly, the whole troop then rejoiced and said: “O Family of Abu Bakr! This is not your first donation to Islam. »

Abu Bakr ( Radhiallahu anhu ) – who was very angry with his daughter – came and said to her: “I did not imagine that you could be the source of such a blessing for the Muslims. Thanks to you, people have been granted great ease. »

Another hadith tells us that Usayd ibn Hudayr came and said to Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) :

“Allah rewards you with good things! Because, by God, nothing unpleasant has ever happened to you without Allah making something good out of it for you and all Muslims. » [Reported by Bukhari]

Let’s not forget that the slightest travel in this region took place in the desert and the water points were often far from each other, which did not make travel easy! Moreover, regarding this remark, Abu Hurayra ( Radhiallahu anhu ) reported that the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) said:

“The journey is one of the aspects of torture where the traveler prevents himself from sleeping, eating and drinking. When you have finished your business, hurry back to your family. » [Reported by Bukhari]

This event therefore had a beneficial impact for all Muslims who, to this day, use this means when they find themselves in circumstances where they do not have water. Then, as if to emphasize that this incident had essentially educational value, the necklace was found under Aisha’s camel just as it got up!

3 – The honeypot affair
The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) had been lingering for some time with Hafsa (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , one of the Wives, who gave him to drink honey that she had received, which he particularly appreciated. We know that the Prophet loved sweet foods.

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) and some of the Wives (Safiya and Sawda, it seems) agreed to tell the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam), when he returned, that his breath gave off a unpleasant smell. This put an end to the Prophet’s « greedy » moments, but they realized that they had deprived him of a pleasure. [Reported by Bukhari]

According to another version, he lingered drinking honey at Zaynab’s house. It was on this occasion that the following verse was revealed:

O Prophet! Why, in seeking the approval of your Wives, do you deny yourself what God has allowed you […]
[Surah 66 – Verse 1]

4 – Safiya’s luggage
Returning from the Farewell pilgrimage, ‘Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) had little luggage as she rode a powerful camel, while Safiya, another of the Wives, had heavy luggage and a weak camel which slowed down the journey. caravan walking.

In order to distribute the load, the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) gave the order to place heavy luggage on ‘Aïsha’s camel, without having asked for the agreement of each person. Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was upset.

The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) proposed to him: “Do you want Abu Ubayda to arbitrate between us? – No, she said, he will never agree with me against you! – So ‘Umar? he suggested. – Oh no ! I’m afraid of him ! Even Satan is afraid of him! – Well, do you want it to be your father, Abu Bakr? »

She consented and they called Abu Bakr ( Radhiallahu anhu ), who, learning the cause of the incident and his daughter’s stubbornness even before the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) had finished his presentation and Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) could defend his cause – raised his hand and slapped it… The Prophet stopped him by saying: “I did not want that. » He stood up and washed his young wife’s face and dress with his hands. [Reported by Bukhari]

[…] Many anecdotes have been told to us about Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) in particular. […]

We know that the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) entrusted Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) with his most secret projects. For example, in terms of strategy, he sometimes prepared an expedition by only communicating his intentions or the destination to his young wife. To those who then came to question her on this or that subject, she replied that she would not say anything, even to her own father!

As for Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , she loved the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) so much that she was worried whenever he moved away. One day she heard him slipping out in the middle of the night, and to find out where he was going, she followed him; he went to the cemetery to pray for those who had died. Upset, she then said: “I would give the lives of my father and my mother for him! » Often, he fell asleep with his head resting on his knees.

We saw that Sawda (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , having become old, had given up her visiting day to him. Thus, the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) spent even more time with ‘Aisha, allowing her to further multiply the opportunities to perfect her knowledge. During the Khaybar expedition, the standard (râyah) of the Prophet was made from the cloak of Aisha. It was black and square.

On the Prophet’s illness
When the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) was stricken with the illness that was to take his life, he continued to successively visit each of his Wives (may Allah be pleased with them) and asked questions every day, saying: “Where would I be I tomorrow? » and this, until the day of his visit to Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , where he remained calm, without asking about the next day.

We are told that from the moment he was immobilized by this illness, he asked the Mothers of the Believers for permission to be treated at ‘Aisha’s house, which they accepted. [Reported by Bukhârî] He was therefore transported from Maymûna’s apartment to that of Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , supported on one side by ‘Ali, on the other by ‘Abbâs.

The illness was getting worse. However, one day he was able to go to the mosque and he spoke to the faithful, invoking Allah (azwadial) at length for the martyrs of Uhud in particular. Then, he gave the order that all the doors leading to the mosque be closed, except that of Abu Bakr ( Radhiallahu anhu ).

He lived his last moments with Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) . We are told that shortly before his death, the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam) saw Aisha’s brother enter the room with a stick of miswâk (natural toothbrush). Aisha read in his eyes that he wanted it. She first chewed it a little and rubbed it into his teeth. Then she took his head and placed it in the crook of her shoulder, so that he was as comfortable as possible and that is how he breathed his last.

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) reported to us about her last moments that the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) repeated: “There is no god except Allah himself. What agony is death. » Then, Aisha heard him say in a barely perceptible voice, “…but with the Highest Companion,” as if he were making a choice.

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) tells us again: “I was young and I didn’t understand anything. In my stupidity, the Prophet breathed his last in my arms and I did not know it. It was only when the other women present started to cry that I understood what had happened…” [Reported by Bukhârî]

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) reported: “He died the same day it was my turn to receive him in my apartment. Allah collected his soul while his head rested between my throat and my chest and my saliva was mixed with his. »[Reported by Bukhari]

The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) was buried there, in Aisha’s room. She continued to live there. Sawda, one of the Wives who died in the year 24 of the Hegira, left him her apartment which was adjoining hers, which allowed Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) to enlarge her home which had become very small due to of the place occupied by the tomb of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam). When, each in turn, Abu Bakr, and later, ‘Umar, left this world, they were both buried near the Prophet.

It is known that when ‘Umar ( Radhiallahu anhu ) was in agony, he sent his son ‘Abdallah to ‘Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , who found her sitting, crying. “’Umar sends you greetings and asks you for permission to be buried with his two Companions. – I would have wanted it for myself, but I give it preference over myself. » […]

After the death of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam), she continued to occupy an important place within the Muslim community, despite her youth.

She enjoyed a great reputation. People came to consult her. She was particularly learned in matters of jurisprudence. We are told that a large number of Companions ( Radhiallahu anhu ) came to study Islamic jurisprudence with her. Atâ reported: “Aisha was more learned than any man of her time. »

‘Aisha, with a few other Companions, made Medina one of the most important centers of study in the world at the time. We are still told that the people who had the privilege of studying with her were subsequently among the most brilliant. At the time of their respective caliphates, Abu Bakr and ‘Umar ( Radhiallahu anhu ) came to consult Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) to explain this or that problem they were facing and question her to find out what the “Prophet would have said or done in such circumstances”. […]

When he in turn had become caliph, Mu’âwiya ( Radhiallahu anhu ) questioned him. She gave as a response this hadith from the Messenger of Allah ( Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ): “He who tries to please Allah, not worrying about the discontent of people, will be protected from the wickedness of people. But he who pleases them people by not caring about God’s displeasure, will be abandoned by Allah and at the mercy of people. »

She had the means to live better because she received, like the other Mothers of the Believers, a pension paid by successive Caliphs. But Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) , who was extremely generous, charged her servant, as soon as she received this pension, to immediately distribute everything to the needy, neglecting to keep anything for herself. When evening came, she said to her servant: “Why didn’t you remind me to save something for dinner this evening? »

So sometimes she didn’t even have enough to eat. She had become so accustomed to a frugal life during her difficult years spent in the house of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam), fasting a lot, that she continued to live in the same way after her disappearance, although the means of the community had improved.

Urwa ( Radhiallahu anhu ) reported that one day he saw Aisha who had received 70,000 dirhams, distributing them to the poor, while she herself was wearing a patched shirt.

A Companion having been moved by the fact that she redistributed to the poor everything she received as time went by, she cried out when she learned: “How? Would my generosity be forbidden? »and of course she continued her practices! [Reported by Bukhari]

One day, she received – at his request – Hassan ibn Thâbit, who had been one of the actors in the slander affair. As people were surprised that she received it, she replied: “Why not. Has he not already been hit with a terrible punishment? » He had, in fact, become blind.

Before she died, while she was in agony, Ibn ‘Abbas ( Radhiallahu anhu ) asked to be received by her. As she hesitated, fearing that he would compliment her, it was pointed out to her that he was the paternal uncle of the Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa salam) and one of the main figures among Muslims. So she received it.

– “How are you,” he asked her? » – “Good, if I fear God,” she replied. » – “You will be well, please God, because you were the Wife of the Messenger of Allah and the only virgin he married. Finally, Revelation recognized you as innocent. »

After this visit, Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) was to say “Ibn ‘Abbas complimented me. I would have preferred that I had been forgotten. »

Aisha (Radia Allahu ‘anha) lived to the age of 67 and died during the month of Ramadan in the year 57 AH, under the caliphate of Mu’âwiya.

She was buried, as she had wished, after the night prayer, in the hour following her death, in the women’s cemetery in Medina, near her companions, the Mothers of the Believers (May Allah be pleased of them) who had preceded her.

Abu Hurayra ( Radhiallahu anhu ) prayed over her with the other Companions ( Radhiallahu anhu ). It was her nephews who placed her in her grave.

May Allah (azwadial) be pleased with Aisha.

Adoption et stérilité

Le fait qu’une personne adopte un enfant, en lui donnant son nom de famille est illicite et Allah l’a interdit dans son livre : « Appelez-les du nom de leurs pères : c’est plus équitable devant Allah. Mais si vous ne connaissez pas leurs pères, alors considérez-les comme vos frères en religion ou vos alliés. Nul blâme sur vous pour ce que vous faites par erreur, mais (vous serez blâmés pour) ce que vos cœurs font délibérément. […]» (sourate 33/verset 5).

L’Islam a ordonné d’appeler chaque personne par le nom de son véritable père (un tel fils d’un tel) afin qu’il n’épouse pas plus tard sa propre sœur sans le savoir ou qu’il ne prenne pas un héritage qui ne lui appartient pas.

Donc, le fait de donner son nom à un enfant adoptif et d’écrire ce nom dans ses papiers officiels, surtout dans certains pays qui ont adopté le droit positif et qui ne reconnaissent que ce qui est écrit dans les documents officiels, entre en contradiction avec l’islam. Si le couple qui a posé la question peut prendre en charge un enfant et l’éduquer en le laissant garder dans ses papiers officiels son vrai nom et celui de son vrai père, c’est une chose licite voir même très recommandée surtout si cet enfant est un orphelin.

Le Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) a dit : « Moi et le parrain de l’orphelin sont comme ces deux ! Et il a montré ses deux doigts l’index et le majeur. » Boukhari.

Il est préférable de le faire allaiter, s’il n’a pas atteint l’âge de deux ans, cinq fois ou plus par la mère adoptive ou sa sœur si c’est un garçon ou par la sœur de son mari si c’est une fille pour qu’il soit un Mahram ( Dans l’Islam, le concept de Mahram est une personne que vous n’êtes pas autorisé à épouser, une personne avec qui vous avez une relation pure, et vous êtes donc autorisé à les rencontrer sans foulard, à voyager avec eux et même à leur serrer la main. ou les embrasser.).

Pour la femme qui désire avoir un enfant jeûner pendant 7 jours : au moment de rompre le jeun, réciter les 3 noms divins (Ya Khabirou – Ya Bar’iou – Ya Mussawirou ) 21 fois dans un verre d’eau, souffler sur l’eau et boire.

‘nchallah tu auras un enfant.

Et Allah sait mieux.

La femme fonctionnaire et les dépenses du ménage

Louange à Allah.

La répartition des dépenses au sein d’un couple immigré pour gagner sa vie doit être réglée à l’amiable et sans tiraillement.

Quant à ce qui est obligatoire, son explication détaillée donne lieu à ces différents cas:

1. Si le mari a formulé, des le début, la condition que les dépenses soient partagées entre vous, sans quoi, il ne vous permettrait pas de travailler, dans ce cas, les musulmans doivent se conformer aux conditions qu’ils établissent entre eux. A ce propos le Prophète (bénédiction et salut soient sur lui) a dit :   les conditions établis par les musulmans entre eux -mêmes les engagent, sauf quand une condition rend le licite illicite et inversement.  Le Prophète (bénédiction et salut soient sur lui) dit encore :  Les conditions qui méritent le mieux d’être respectées sont celles qui légalisent les rapports sexuels.

Vous devez donc vous conformer aux conditions que vous avez établies entre vous.

2. Si vous n’avez formulé aucune condition, toutes ces dépenses incombent au mari. L’épouse ne supporte rien des dépenses du ménage. C’est le mari qui doit les assurer conformément à ces propos d’Allah le Puissant et Majestueux :  Que celui qui est aisé dépense de sa fortune; et que celui dont les biens sont restreints dépense selon ce qu’ Allah lui a accordé. Allah n’ impose à personne que selon ce qu’ Il lui a donné.  (Coran, 65:7) et à ses propos du Prophète (bénédiction et salut soient sur lui):  C’est à vous de les nourrir et de les habiller selon le bon usage. 

C’est à l’époux d’assurer les dépenses. C’est lui qui doit veiller à satisfaire les besoins du foyer, les affaires du ménage qui concernent sa femme, ses enfants et lui-même. Le salaire de l’épouse lui revient puisqu’il constitue une rétribution de son travail et sa peine. Elle a conclu le mariage sans que son partenaire lui impose la condition de supporter intégralement ou partiellement les dépenses du ménage. Cependant elle peut céder volontairement une partie du salaire en application des propos du Très Haut :  Si de bon gré, elles vous en abandonnent quelque chose, disposez- en alors à votre aise et de bon cœur.  (Coran,4:4)

Si le mariage a été conclu sur la base d’une condition allant dans le sens de ce qui précède (partage des dépenses), les musulmans doivent respecter les conditions qu’ils acceptent.

Mettez-vous d’accord sur un taux de participation comme la moitié, le tiers, le quart du salaire ou d’autres pourcentages, afin de régler les problèmes et de substituer la cohésion, la quiétude et la tranquillité à la dispute. Il peut aussi, de son côté, se contenter de la part qu’Allah lui a attribuée et supporter les dépenses dans la mesure de ses moyens et se passer de l’intégralité de votre salaire et s’en détourner. Si cela s’avère impossible, rien n’empêche de solliciter l’arbitrage du tribunal de la localité dans laquelle vous vivez. Car l’avis du tribunal musulman suffit, s’il fait à Allah.

Puisse Allah assister tous.

La circoncision en islam

La circoncision est une coutume conforme à la nature saine originelle. Allah, exalté soit-Il, l’a instituée pour Ses prophètes et leurs adeptes, pour inciter à la pureté et à la propreté et pour se différencier des incroyants.

Allah, exalté soit-Il, a accordé à l’homme un degré plus élevé qu’à toute autre créature, et a choisi pour la nation de Mohammed () la meilleure religion en lui ordonnant de suivre la religion de leur père Abraham, Ibrâhîm () qui pratiquait la sunna de la circoncision. Le Prophète () a dit : « Ibrâhîm, l’ami intime du Tout Miséricordieux s’est circoncis » (Boukhari).

Il faut savoir que cet acte rituel important pour tout musulman est vivement recommandé par la Sounnah de notre Prophète et Messager, Mouhammad, (que la prière d’Allah et Son salut soient sur lui). En effet, dans un hadith rapporté par Al Boukhari et Mouslim, deux savants du monde musulman, qu’Allah leur fasse miséricorde, d’après AbduLlah Ibn Omar, le dernier des Prophètes et Messagers ﷺ a dit :
« Cinq choses font partie de la Fitra : la circoncision, raser les poils pubiens, épiler les aisselles, couper les ongles et tailler les moustaches. »

D’ailleurs, sachez que pour les quatre actes cités en dernier, une limite de temps est précisée dans un autre hadith rapporté par At Tirmidhi et authentifié par Cheikh Al Albani, qu’Allah lui fasse miséricorde. En effet, Anas Ibn Malik explique :
“Concernant le fait de tailler la moustache, de se couper les ongles, de se raser les poils pubiens et de s’épiler les aisselles, le Prophète SallaLlahu ‘alayhi wa salam nous a mis comme limite de temps de ne pas dépasser quarante jours.”

Permettre à son enfant d’être circoncis présente de nombreux avantages et sagesses que les savants et le corps médical ont su mettre en avant afin d’informer les parents.
À ce sujet, Cheikh ‘Abd Al-Mouhsîn Al ‘Abbad, explique :
“Quant aux musulmans, ils se circoncisent, car il y a dans la circoncision une purification. Et il ne peut y avoir de vraie purification sans circoncision. Car lorsque l’urine sort du pénis alors qu’il y a le prépuce, les impuretés ne sont pas totalement évacuées du pénis mais restent dans le prépuce. Mais si le prépuce est coupé, il n’y a rien pour retenir l’impureté. Alors, la personne devient pure.”

En effet, de nombreux médecins ont confirmé que cette pratique religieuse diminue le risque de contracter certaines maladies sexuellement transmissibles telles que l’herpès simplex de type 2 et le Papillomavirus humain. De plus, des études médicales ont prouvé que le risque de contamination par le VIH (sida) lors de rapports sexuels diminue de 60 % chez les hommes circoncis.

Malgré ces avantages reconnus, il n’est pas rare d’entendre certaines personnes condamner cette pratique, notamment en Occident. Celles-ci qualifient à tort cet acte médical ou chirurgical de “mutilation”, de “mutilations sexuelles”, d’”atteinte à l’intégrité physique”, aux droits de l’enfant ou à la laïcité, de “diminution du plaisir sexuel” ou de risque pour la qualité de la vie sexuelle et des relations sexuelles, etc. Pourtant, il n’en est rien. Une fois que la cicatrisation est effective, après l’intervention chirurgicale ou après le rendez-vous chez le médecin, il n’y a pas d’incidences sur la santé des nouveau-nés, des petits garçons ou de l’homme circoncis une fois adulte. Bien au contraire, les dernières recherches médicales viennent confirmer les bienfaits de cette pratique religieuse importante pour la communauté musulmane, comme expliqué ci-dessus.   Ainsi, que la circoncision soit effectuée pour motifs religieux (croyances musulmanes ou juives) ou pour raisons médicales, elle constitue aujourd’hui un acte accompli par des centaines de millions de personnes à travers le monde. Et les nombreux bienfaits qu’elle comporte ne font que conforter le parent, que celui-ci appartienne au culte musulman, qu’il soit juif ou chrétien.

Les jeunes et les vacances

Parmi les choses qui aident le musulman à protéger son temps du gaspillage, et à protéger sa vie de la dispersion, de l’annihilation et de la dévastation : tracer un plan pratique qui occupe tout son temps en tenant compte des nécessités, des besoins et des améliorations, en recherchant la perfection, en coupant les penchants de l’âme insistantes, en chassant, en repoussant, les tentations de Satan afin qu’elles ne le découragent pas [qu’elles ne l’empêchent pas d’accomplir de bonnes actions]. Et Parmi les inventions éducatives et sages de l’imam Ach-Chaafi’î  (Radhiallahu anhu), sa parole :

« Si tu n’occupes pas ton âme avec la vérité, elle te fera te préoccuper de ce qui est faux ».

Celui qui prend comme base la protection de son temps, l’éveil et l’effort comme lumière, atteindra tout ce qu’il désire, et entrera dans les jardins de la vérité, du bien et du succès par la porte la plus accueillante.         

Il est rapporté dans les exemples de sagesse, selon la parole de l’un des pieux prédécesseurs :  

« Quiconque passe sa journée sans juger avec la vérité ou sans accomplir de prière obligatoire ou sans obtenir de gloire ou sans recevoir de louange ou sans fonder un bien ou sans acquérir une science, aura alors manqué à ses devoirs envers sa journée et aura été injuste envers lui-même ».

Voilà vos vacances, serviteurs d’Allah ; donc construisez-les et ne les laissez pas s’écouler sans rien faire ; construisez-les en accomplissant de bonnes actions et méfiez-vous des distractions et des choses qui détruisent. Voilà les sources du bien et les domaines de la concurrence prescrites qui sont très nombreuses par la grâce d’Allah (azwadial); voilà un fragment qui montre comment le temps est précieux, et son importance dans la vie de l’individu, de la société et de la communauté.

Nous passons à un discours qui a un rapport étroit avec ces vacances , c’est le discours qui concerne un petit groupe importante de la société et une catégorie chère dans la communauté, ce sont ses jeunes, ses progénitures et sa génération, et la nécessité de bien s’occuper d’eux, surtout pendant les périodes des vacances après que les derniers événements ont montré la duperie de certains jeunes de la société par des pensées déviées (mauvaises) qui corrompent leurs cerveaux et la sécurité de leur pays, ce qui confirme la nécessité de se préoccuper du temps des jeunes et de remplir leur temps libre avec des programmes utiles qui leur sont profitables, ainsi qu’à leur société dans les domaines de la religion et de la vie de ce monde.  De même qu’il faut les empêcher de fréquenter les gens qui ont des pensées déviées. Et les pères doivent surveiller leurs comportements et leurs changements afin de trouver un moyen de parler avec eux avec la tendresse paternelle, selon les règles de la législation islamique, les capacités sociales et familiales.

Les enfants des musulmans qui meurent avant d’atteindre la puberté

Quiconque parmi les enfants des musulmans meurt avant d’atteindre la puberté entrera au Paradis. 

A ce propos, Al-Bukhârî (Radhiallahu) rapporte d’après ‘Adî Ibn Thabit qu’il entendit AI-Barâ’ (Radhiallahu anhu) dire :

« Lorsque Ibrâhîm décéda, le Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) dit : « Il a une nourrice au Paradis ».

En rapportant ce hadîth dans ce chapitre, Al-Bukhârî (Radhiallahu) vise à mettre en évidence qu’ils sont au Paradis.

Par ailleurs, Anas Ibn Mâlik (Radhiallahu anhu) rapporte que le Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) a dit :

« Dieu fera entrer au paradis tout musulman qui aura perdu trois enfants non encore pubères,
grâce à Sa Miséricorde pour eux. »

Alléguer ce hadith, signifie que celui grâce auquel on entre au paradis en est bien plus digne, car étant la raison et la source de la miséricorde Divine.

Quant aux enfants des impies, ils entreront au Paradis, au même titre que les enfants des musulmans.

An-Nawawî souligne que c’est l’opinion authentique approuvée par tous les critiques, conformément au propos de Dieu:

« Nous n’avons jamais sévi avant d’avoir envoyé un messager. »
[ Sourate 17 – Verset 15 ]

En effet, si l’homme ayant atteint l’âge de la raison ne subit le châtiment divin que s’il a été averti, à fortiori celui qui n’a pas encore atteint cet âge ne saurait le subir.

A ce sujet, Ahmad (Radhiallahu) rapporte d’après Khansâ’ Ibn Mu’âwiya Ibn Sarîm, que sa tante déclare avoir demandé au Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) :

– « Ô Envoyé de Dieu, qui est au Paradis ? »
– « Le Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) est au Paradis, le martyr est au Paradis et le bébé est au Paradis », lui répondit-il.

Al-Hâfidh (Radhiallahu) a dit que sa chaîne de transmission était bonne.

L’Islam préconise la paix et la réconciliation

Dans chapitre 8, versets 62 à 63, nous lisons :

« Et s’ils penchent vers la paix, penches-y aussi, et mets ta confiance en Allah, c’est Lui assurément qui entend tout, sait tout. Et s’ils ont le dessein de t’induire en erreur, Allah te suffit assurément. C’est Lui qui t’a fortifié par Son aide et avec les croyants. »

Autrement dit, si au cours de la bataille, quel que soit le moment, les incroyants désirent la paix, les musulmans doivent accepter l’offre immédiatement et faire la paix. Ils doivent le faire même au risque d’être trompés, plaçant leur confiance en Dieu. La duperie ne servira à rien contre eux, car ils comptent non sur eux-mêmes, mais sur l’aide de Dieu à Qui ils doivent leurs victoires. Dans leurs moments les plus sombres et les plus difficiles, Dieu avait soutenu le Saint Prophète Muhammad (saw) et ses fidèles ; de la même façon, Il les soutiendra contre les trompeurs. Une offre de paix doit donc être acceptée et non pas rejetée, sous prétexte qu’il s’agit d’une ruse par laquelle l’ennemi cherche à gagner du temps pour une nouvelle attaque.

L’accent mis sur la paix dans ces versets n’est pas dénué de signification. Ceux-ci anticipent la paix que signa le Saint Prophète Muhammad à Hudaibiya. Ils l’avertissent de ce qu’un temps viendra où l’ennemi recherchera la paix. L’offre ne devra pas être refusée sous le prétexte que l’ennemi était l’agresseur et qu’il avait commis des excès ou qu’on ne peut lui faire confiance. Le droit chemin enseigné par l’Islam exige qu’un musulman accepte une offre de paix. La piété et le bon jugement en rendent l’acceptation désirable.

Dans le chapitre 4 verset 94, nous lisons :

« Ô vous qui croyez ! Quand vous vous mettez en campagne dans la cause d’Allah, renseignez-vous bien et ne dites pas à celui qui vous adresse le salut de la paix : « Tu n’es pas un croyant. » Vous cherchez les biens de la vie d’ici-bas, alors qu’auprès d’Allah il y a abondance de biens. Autrefois vous étiez ainsi, mais Allah vous a accordé Ses grâces. Aussi donc, renseignez vous bien. Assurément, Allah est bien informé de ce que vous faites. »

En d’autres termes, quand les musulmans partent en guerre, ils doivent s’assurer que l’ennemi a été averti de ce que la guerre a de déraisonnable et qu’il la veut en connaissance de cause. Ayant fait cela, si les musulmans reçoivent d’un individu ou d’un groupe une proposition de paix, ils ne doivent pas la refuser sous prétexte qu’elle n’est pas honnête. Si les musul­mans déclinent des offres de paix, ils ne combattront pas pour Dieu mais pour eux-mêmes et pour gagner des biens de ce monde. Tout comme la religion vient de Dieu, la gloire et les biens de ce monde doivent venir de Lui aussi. Tuer ne doit pas être un but. Celui qu’on désire tuer aujourd’hui peut être bien guidé demain. Or, les musulmans auraient-ils pu le devenir s’ils n’avaient pas été épargnés ? Les musulmans doivent s’abstenir de tuer car les vies épargnées peuvent devenir des vies guidées. Dieu sait bien ce que font les hommes, pour quelles raisons et dans quel but ils le font.

Le verset enseigne que, même après que la guerre ait commencé, le devoir des musulmans est de se renseigner si l’ennemi est décidé à l’agression. Il arrive souvent que l’ennemi fasse des préparatifs de guerre sous l’emprise de l’excitation ou de la crainte, alors qu’il n’a aucune intention d’être l’agresseur ; aussi, tant que les musulmans ne sont pas assurés que l’ennemi a préparé une attaque, ils ne doivent pas entrer en guerre. S’il apparaît, dans les faits ou dans les déclarations de l’ennemi, que ses préparatifs ne sont que légitime défense, les musulmans doivent accepter une telle déclaration et s’abstenir de faire la guerre. Si l’agression avait été l’intention première, peut-être cette intention avait-elle changé. Les intentions et les motivations ne changent-elles pas continuellement ? Les ennemis de l’Islam ne sont-ils pas devenus amis ?

source : islam-ahmadiyya.org

Les Femmes pieuses – Hafsa

Elle était la fille du célèbre ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattâb (Radhiallahu anhu), mecquois de la tribu des Adî. Sa Mère
s’appelait Zaynab bint Maz’ûn. Elle est née avant la Révélation, la même année que Fâtima, la fille du Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam).  Son père, ‘Umar, deuxième Calife, fut un illustre personnage du temps du Prophète et l’un de ses proches compagnons.

       Avant qu’il ne devienne musulman, il fut un ennemi implacable de l’Islam. Il s’était même porté volontaire pour tuer le Prophète. C’était environ 5 ou 6 ans après le début de la Révélation. Mais, en se rendant chez l’Envoyé d’Allah (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam), il rencontra quelqu’un qui, au lieu de lui indiquer où il pourrait le trouver, le détourna en lui révélant que, dans sa propre maison, sa sœur Fâtima et son mari étaient devenus musulmans.

     Rendu furieux, ‘Umar (Radhiallahu anhu) changea de direction et se rendit chez eux.

Un autre musulman était en visite chez eux et leur récitait des versets du Coran. En l’entendant arriver, sa sœur dissimula les feuillets sur elle. Il entra et les interrogea ; elle lui avoua qu’ils étaient musulmans. Très en colère, ‘Umar la gifla et voulut lui arracher les feuillets pour les lire. Elle refusa de les lui donner, lui disant qu’il était impur et ne pouvait donc toucher le texte du Coran.

     Néanmoins, bouleversé par son geste en voyant un peu de sang couler sur le visage de sa sœur, il alla se laver afin de pouvoir prendre connaissance de ces fameux feuillets. Il put ainsi lire les premiers versets de la sourate Ta Ha.

{ Tâ-Hâ.  Nous n’avons point fait descendre sur toi le Coran pour que tu sois malheureux,  si ce n’est qu’un Rappel pour celui qui redoute (Allah),  (et comme) une révélation émanant de Celui qui a créé la terre et les cieux sublimes. }
[Sourate 20 – Versets 1- 4]

     Instantanément, il fut touché par ces versets et se convertit à son tour. Il se rendit chez le Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam), non plus avec l’intention de le tuer, mais pour prononcer la shahâda : « II n’y a d’autre dieu que Allah et Muhammad est son Envoyé. »Dès cet instant, l’Islam le compta parmi ses plus ardents défenseurs.

    Chacun sait que ses contemporains le craignaient pour sa sévérité. Il était, en effet, extrêmement rigoureux, tant lui-même craignait de ne pas être en parfaite conformité avec les ordres d’Allah (azwadial). Les Compagnons (Radhiallahu anhum)  hésitaient à lui poser certaines questions après la mort du Prophète(sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) de crainte que la réponse soit contraignante pour eux !

     Ainsi donc, Hafsa (Radhiallahu anha) était issue d’une famille très respectée. Il s’agissait d’une famille d’intellectuels. Shiffa bint ‘Abdallah, une parente de ‘Umar (Radhiallahu anha) , qui savait lire et écrire, avait instruit Hafsa et sa sœur, ce qui était rare avant l’Islam, en particulier pour les femmes.

     Hafsa (Radhiallahu anha) avait déjà été mariée. Avec son mari, Khunays ibn Hudhâfa, ils avaient fait partie du premier groupe d’émigrés en Abyssinie, pays où régnait alors le Négus, ce roi bienveillant dont nous avons déjà parlé, qui les protégea même lorsque les Quraysh vinrent les poursuivre jusque dans son pays. Au retour de leur émigration, Hafsa (Radhiallahu anha) et son mari se rendirent à Médine où était désormais installée la communauté. Nous savons que Khunays participa à la bataille de Badr et de Uhud, où il fut blessé et mourut en l’an 2 de l’Hégire.

     Hafsa (Radhiallahu anha), qui n’avait pas eu d’enfant, se retrouva veuve ; elle avait environ 20 ans. Après quelque temps, ‘Umar (Radhiallahu anhu) chercha à remarier sa fille. Il s’adressa d’abord à ‘Uthmân (Radhiallahu anhu)– devenu veuf de Ruqayia (Radhiallahu anha) , la fille aînée du Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam), qui déclina l’offre. Il s’adressa ensuite à Abu Bakr (Radhiallahu anhu) qui était son meilleur ami, mais celui-ci lui fit une réponse évasive et il en fut blessé.

     On nous rapporte que Hafsa (Radhiallahu anha) était alors réputée pour avoir un caractère hautain et personne ne voulait l’épouser. ‘Umar (Radhiallahu anhu) se rendit auprès du Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) pour se plaindre de la situation, mais il lui fut répondu :

« Je te montrerai un meilleur gendre que ‘Uthmân et je lui montrerai un meilleur beau-père que toi. » [Rapporté par Bukhârî]

     ‘Umar (Radhiallahu anhu) comprit alors que le Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) avait l’intention de lui demander la main de sa fille et que Abu Bakr (Radhiallahu anhu)  était déjà dans le secret ! De fait, le Prophète demanda la main de Hafsa (Radhiallahu anhu)  à ‘Umar, qui bien entendu la lui accorda avec joie.

En ce qui concerne ‘Uthmân (Radhiallahu anhu) , le Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) lui fit épouser une autre de ses filles, Um Kalthûm (Radhiallahu anha) . Il devint le beau-père de ‘Uthmân ainsi qu’il l’avait annoncé. Le mariage de ‘Uthmân et Um Kalthûm eut lieu d’abord, puis le Prophète épousa Hafsa (Radhiallahu anha)  4 mois plus tard, vraisemblablement pendant le mois de Sha’bân de l’an 3 de l’Hégire.
Entre temps, l’appartement qui devait la recevoir fut préparé. La dot que lui remit le Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) fut de 400 dirhams.

     On se reportera utilement à la disposition des appartements des Épouses, à la fin de cet ouvrage, étant précisé qu’au fur et à mesure que le Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) faisant entrer une nouvelle Épouse, on ajoutait un appartement.

     L’arrivée de Hafsa (Radhiallahu anha)  ne troubla en aucune façon la vie familiale ; même ‘Âïsha (Radhiallahu anha)  fut heureuse de trouver une compagne qui fut proche d’elle et des liens très solides les unirent l’une à l’autre. On se souvient que Sawda (Radhiallahu anha)  était déjà assez âgée lors de son mariage avec le Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam). À cette époque, elles étaient trois Épouses : Sawda, ‘Âïsha et Hafsa. Mais la famille devait s’agrandir rapidement puisque le Prophète contracta encore plusieurs autres unions au cours de cette période.

     Le rôle de Hafsa n’est pas négligeable, même s’il n’est pas aussi remarquable que celui joué par ‘Aïsha (Radhiallahu anha) . Un jour que ‘Umar (Radhiallahu anhu) faisait des reproches à son épouse, celle-ci lui répondit sur un ton auquel il n’était pas habitué. Il lui demanda la raison de ce comportement nouveau et elle lui apprit que les Épouses du Prophète lui répliquaient et considérait donc qu’elle pouvait en faire autant !

     Parlant de Hafsa, elle ajouta : « II y en a une qui, du matin au soir, lui dit tout ce qu’elle pense sans hésiter. » ‘Umar, préoccupé, se rendit auprès de Hafsa et l’interrogea à ce sujet. Hafsa lui confirma ce qu’avait dit sa mère.

‘Umar fit remarquer à sa fille : « Tu n’as ni la grâce de ‘Âïsha, ni la beauté de Zaynab… Es-tu certaine que si tu irrites le Prophète, Allah ne t’écrasera pas de Sa colère ? » [Rapporté par Bukhârî]

     Après quoi, il se rendit chez Um Salama, sa cousine, une autre des Épouses du Prophète pour lui demander : « Est-il vrai que vous tenez tête à l’Envoyé d’Allah et vous lui répondez sur un ton irrespectueux ? »

     Um Salama lui rétorqua vivement : « Qui donc t’a autorisé à t’interposer entre l’Envoyé d’Allah et ses Épouses ? Certes, nous lui disons franchement ce que nous pensons. S’il l’admet, c’est son affaire, mais s’il devait nous l’interdire, il nous trouverait alors plus obéissantes que nous ne le sommes à ton égard ! » ‘Umar (Radhiallahu anhu) repartit sur cette réponse. […]

     Après la disparition du Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam), il ne semble pas que Hafsa ait joué un rôle politique dans la suite. On nous rapporte que, alors que son père ‘Umar était à l’agonie, après l’attentat dont il venait d’être victime, Hafsa, Mère des Croyants, lui rendit une dernière visite et resta un moment auprès de lui à pleurer. Puis elle se retira dans la pièce voisine jusqu’à ce que le corps de ‘Umar fût transporté pour être enterré auprès du Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) et d’Abu Bakr (Radhiallahu anhu) .

     Toutefois, on sait que Hafsa (Radhiallahu anha)  eut à remplir une mission importante et de grande confiance. À la mort de son père ‘Umar, il n’existait qu’une copie officielle écrite du texte du Coran.

     Or, le nombre de musulmans était devenu très important et il circulait un non moins grand nombre de copies, dans une écriture peu développée, ce qui était nuisible à la bonne préservation et à la pureté du texte. Abu Bakr, puis ‘Umar, avaient pris conscience de la nécessité d’un texte contrôlé par les vrais connaisseurs du Coran, mais ce travail n’avait pas pu être achevé pour être diffusé avant leur disparition à tous deux.

     C’est à Hafsa (Radhiallahu anha)  que fut confiée l’unique copie officielle qui la conserva jusqu’à ce que le travail put être exécuté. On se souvient que Hafsa était savante ; on nous rapporte que, à la fin de sa vie, elle connaissait le Coran par cœur.

     Ce fut donc le troisième calife, ‘Uthmân (Radhiallahu anhu) , qui fit revoir le texte par Zayd ibn Thâbit et quelques autres, et se chargea de faire ramasser toutes les autres copies existantes. Il les fit brûler et diffusa enfin le texte définitif, correctement orthographié pour une bonne prononciation. Il envoya, en outre, 6 copies dans les différents centres islamiques et garda une copie pour lui.

     Sur la personnalité de Hafsa, nous savons encore qu’elle était très pieuse et qu’elle jeûnait beaucoup.

     Nous lui devons au moins une soixantaine de ahadîth. Elle mourut en l’an 45 de l’Hégire, âgée d’environ 60 ans. Elle fut enterrée avec les autres Mères des Croyants (Qu’Allah soit satisfait d’elles), dans le cimetière de Médine. On nous rapporte que l’Ange Gabriel (alayhi as-salâm) avait été chargé d’informer le Prophète (sallAllahou alayhi wa salam) que Hafsa (Radhiallahu anha) serait également son épouse au Paradis.

     Qu’ Allah  (azwadial) soit satisfait de Hafsa.