Islam values ​​the mother

1 – The Most High said:

{Worship Allah and do not associate with Him. Act with kindness towards (your) father and mother, … }
[Surah 4 – Verse 36]

Ibn Abbas ( Radhiallahu anhu ) said: “[…] that is to say, do them good, be gentle with them, do not scold them, do not stare at them with your eyes, do not raise your voice at them. speaking and behaving towards them like a slave before his master.”

2 – The Most High said:

{ And your Lord has decreed “Worship none but Him; and (mark) kindness to father and mother: if one or both of them should reach old age with you, then do not say to them: “Fi!” and do not rush them, but speak respectful words to them.
And out of mercy, lower the wing of humility for them, and say: “O my Lord, have mercy on them both as they raised me when I was little” } [Surah 17 – Verses 23-24 ]

You must respect your parents, father and mother and take care of them. This piety is elevated to the rank of duty which comes just after that owed to Allah  (azwadial) , which proves that Islam holds fathers and mothers in high regard.

Allah  (azwadial)  forbade us from saying bad words to them, even if it was a simple “fi!” ”. He forbade us to scold them. On the contrary, you must speak to them gently using friendly language.

A man came to the Messenger of Allah and said to him: “O Messenger of Allah! Who deserves my company the most? ”. He said: “Your mother.” He said: “And who else? ” – he says: “Your mother”. He repeated: “And who else? ”, he said: “Your mother.” He repeated again: “And who else?”, he said: “Your father”.”

[Reported by Al Bukhari and Mouslim]

The Prophet  (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam) commended the man to his mother three times in a row, which reflects the privilege of the mother and the honorable place of the Muslim woman.