This happens when she loses all sensation and becomes unable to play her natural role in the sexual relationship. It is an inability to enjoy sexually or desire to make love. The sexually cold woman feels a blockage in her emotional abilities, she no longer feels any excitement, some even feel pain when they have sexual intercourse.
This is comparable to male weakness, because the blood vessels no longer do their job and the clitoris remains inside. The glands do not provide any secretion and the opening of the vagina remains dry. She can participate with her husband in sexual practice but without the slightest excitement. This is how she differs from the sexually weak man.
More surprising is to see that some believe that women have a lesser capacity than men to reach orgasm, except that in reality they are greater. The only difference is that women are slower in consent and sexual arousal.
The ignorance of spouses and their little knowledge about sexuality contributes greatly to the sexual frustration that many people experience. It is also one of the direct causes of disagreements between husband and wife. Given that everyone, both man and woman, needs sexual satisfaction within the marital relationship, whose sexual harmony helps in its realization leading to enjoyment, it is necessary that the husband learns the characteristics and specificities of the woman, he must know the erectile organs and sensitive to arousal, because the woman does not completely lose her sensitivity, in the majority of cases. Just that she hasn’t found a way to cum yet.
The wife must know that the remedy for her nonchalance is not just with her husband, but she herself plays an important role. Mutual enjoyment is the important point to take into account. Nothing is more certain for marital happiness and a man’s virility than a woman’s knowledge in the art of love. The clitoris being the source of sexual arousal in women, it is recommended to follow the means allowing its direct arousal. The husband should gently play with the clitoris for enough time to be sure that his wife is fully aroused and ready for copulation.
Orgasm:
Orgasm is pushing the organic act resulting from copulation to its natural climax. In the few moments before orgasm, muscle tension suddenly increases to a physically uncontrollable level without sexual desire taking over the entire body. […]
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Orgasm is therefore, in addition to being one of the secrets of Allah’s creation, a male and female appetite, appeased after a sexual encounter but never dissipated. The sexual act is therefore an act of attenuation, not an act of saturation. Satisfaction depends on the consent of the man and the woman regarding the impulses of seduction and attraction towards the other in an open mind without obstacle or barrier.
Causes and solutions to inability to orgasm
1- Ignorance:
Most women know their washing machine more than their genitals, because it is rare to find a woman who understands the tricks of sexual relations and the wishes of her husband. In reality, putting everything in its place brings another life to the couple and combats their often imagined sexual weakness, while enjoying an admirable guilty life.
2- Fear:
It is a dangerous psychological obstacle that can destroy a person’s health and certainly their sex life.
The young bride approaching the marital bed with fear and hesitation will not experience sexual pleasure, and the pain she might feel during her first sexual intercourse could lead her to believe that it comes from copulation, which prevents any vaginal secretion and therefore makes intercourse more difficult. The more the woman is afraid of pain, the more she will feel it.
This fear is natural but it must not be allowed to exceed its limits. What a woman needs during sex is to relax. Enjoyment, especially for women, is the significant value of love but fear destroys this love. Also, when the woman offers herself with love and desire to her husband, she leaves no chance for fear, which keeps her away from all pain.
3- Inertia:
There are many women who are passive during sexual intercourse; it is sometimes ignorance and sometimes fear that pushes them to lie on their backs to let their husbands enjoy them.
The woman must understand that sex is a sport requiring two players. So, she must be active and participate by showing the positions and movements that excite her and push her to orgasm. Because her inertia will not allow in most cases, whatever the vigor of her husband and the means he uses to excite her, to achieve this orgasm. The simple understanding that sexual arousal and enjoyment during copulation is the key to a more satisfying sexual relationship is enough.
It therefore appears that the role of the woman through her participation in the romantic relationship is beneficial for her and her husband. The only sensation bringing more pleasure to a man than ejaculation is this feeling of satisfaction that he experiences after the exciting and loving participation of his wife, proving to her how much he means to her.
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