Sexual problems

Premature ejaculation:

It is one of the most widespread sexual problems in men, it is fair to say that it is the greatest cause of problems, of a sexual nature, in the life of a couple.  

It is the lack of control in ejaculating for sufficient time to allow the woman to climax, in other words, it is the act of ejaculating before the man desires. The husband ejaculates at the slightest friction at the tip of the penis, whether before or after vaginal penetration.

Most cases of premature ejaculation are due to increased excitation of the genital organ, which causes orgasm and then ejaculation by simple contact, the result of a lack of control over the force of sexual arousal.

So, the thing that a man should avoid most is friction and extra excitement at the tip of his penis, which requires a lot of self-control at the time when sexual desire forcefully drives him to ejaculation.

If a man learns how to calm himself down for a moment during penetration of the penis into the vagina, he will have a better ability to control ejaculation and delay it.

So the problem with many men is their inability to control himself, excitement pushes him to move. Despite this, man must fight this desire until he controls it. With practice, he will know the amount of time he needs to remain inactive to control ejaculation. Thus, inactivity at the start of the sexual relationship will allow for mutual enjoyment.

A man must learn to empty his mind every time he feels the first ejaculation coming, or think about something other than sex, in order to weaken desire and prevent premature ejaculation.

The husband must also avoid penetrating the penis with force and vigor, the sexual area is erectile and brutal penetration is neither satisfying nor exciting for the wife, as long as there has not been prior caressing. with the hand at the level of the clitoris.

Respecting this before penetration has two specificities:

1- This is more exciting for the woman, because it is the organ that excites the woman the most and allows her to orgasm. Most women like to have their clitoris played with before intercourse and even afterward. When the man ejaculates first, the woman’s excitement is still high, but the man abandons her while she still wants sex and feels it throughout her body. If the clitoris plays such a big role in a woman’s sexuality, the man must know how to play with this clitoris and the different methods to excite it.

2- This is less exciting for the man, which helps him more to control his ejaculation when his wife is almost at orgasm.

Finally, we will say that premature ejaculation is a painful problem for both men and women and does not resolve itself, because each resolution of a problem requires time. With a lot of patience on the part of the wife, she will be able to help her husband control his ejaculation, which will bring them more good.

Some doctors have suggested some exercises to resolve this problem, which is detrimental to married life. This exercise consists of the following: the wife plays with her husband’s penis until it becomes erect, then in a back and forth motion up and down she moves her hand over the erect penis. In this case, very quickly the man can ejaculate but just before this happens, the husband gives a hint to the wife so that she knows. She then takes the penis with her thumb and two fingers placed on each side of the latter and in the middle of the penis, then presses it forcefully for three to four seconds. She then waits for the husband’s sexual arousal to subside before repeating the arousal in the same manner. Once again, she presses the penis after excitement and on the verge of ejaculation to prevent it. This exercise must be repeated for 15 to 20 minutes. If the man ejaculates after the first attempts, he will have to wait an hour before resuming the exercise.

As soon as the man has learned to somewhat control his ejaculation, the woman can then place herself on top of her husband and can penetrate the penis into her vagina without moving so that the man gets used to this sensation. This sometimes requires two to three minutes of inactivity, which allows the human greater control. Then, the woman will begin to gently move up and down, bringing her husband to the peak of his arousal.

As soon as he signals that he is going to ejaculate, the woman withdraws and performs the pressure exercise on the penis for 3 to 4 seconds, as mentioned above. Finally, after the husband has calmed down, the exercise can resume.

With the wife’s patience and understanding, she can help her husband learn to control his emotions. As for her, he will in turn help her achieve enjoyment and satisfaction. Let the woman in love know that what she does to help her husband is useful and profitable. They will both see that the time spent learning this was beneficial time.