Children’s Rights Over Their Parents

Parents have rights over their children, but children also have rights over their parents, as Allah has commanded:

« O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones. »
(Quran, 66:6)

The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:

« Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you is responsible for his flock. »
(Reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

Children’s Rights Over Their Parents:

1. Choosing righteous parents: A pious spouse ensures a strong foundation for the child’s upbringing.
2. Providing essential needs: Food, shelter, clothing, and a good name.
3. Religious and moral education: Teaching Islamic values, protecting their faith, and preparing them for an honorable life.

Ibn al-Qayyim emphasized that neglecting children’s upbringing often leads to their deviation, harming their life in this world and the hereafter.

Finally, even if parents fail in their duties, children must always treat them with kindness, as Allah has commanded:

« Be grateful to Me and to your parents. »
(Quran, 31:14)

Allah knows best.